Most of us have a need to be part of a community that shares love, commitment, security and connections. We can all create our own “chosen family”, by consciously choosing whom to become more intimate with and investing our time and energy into these relationships. It’s the people in our lives who make good times better and difficult ones easier.
Take some time out to look at your community which is made of acquaintances, friend and families -see if they are made any of these type of people who are going to help you achieve your goals. Some people may have more than one of the qualities below. The key is to have a community of people who is going to encourage and support you.
Proactive – This person is doing things to get themselves on a path of personal development and is proactive in changing their life for the better.
Appreciative – This person consistently appreciates and values your relationship as well as your gifts, talents and strengths.
Communicative – This person is committed to respectful and non-defensive communication, constructive and honest (always with love), the kind of communication that brings a relationship closer together instead of further part.
Attentive – This person pays attention to what you say, listening without judgement, and caring about what you need to feel safe.
Honest – This person is committed to integrity and telling the truth.
Accountable – this person takes full responsibility for their part in the relationship and is always willing to work to look at and deal with how they need to grow.
How did you get on with th above?
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